How paradigms influence our lives and how we can use them to our advantage

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Introduction

Welcome to a journey of self-discovery and understanding through the lens of paradigms. In this exploration, we delve into the concept of paradigms and their profound influence on how we perceive and interact with the world around us. Paradigms are the mental frameworks or belief systems that colour our experiences and shape our reality. They are the lenses through which we view our lives, guiding our thoughts, actions, and reactions, often without conscious awareness.

This discussion finds its roots in the insightful teachings of Don Miguel Ruiz’s seminal work, “The Four Agreements.” In his book, Ruiz presents a simple yet powerful code of personal conduct derived from ancient Toltec wisdom that can transform our lives by altering our internal agreements and paradigms. These agreements are the unconscious rules we live by, the invisible hand that guides our daily lives, often in ways we don’t realise.

Our exploration is centred around a critical inquiry: Are we aware of the paradigms that govern our lives? This question challenges us to reflect on the nature of our deepest beliefs and assumptions. It invites us to consider whether these paradigms operate at a conscious level, where we actively engage with and understand them, or at a subconscious…